Prompt: Reflect on a time when you or someone you know had to choose between fitting in and staying true to their identity; what was gained or lost in that experience?
During middle school is the time where we begin to feel the most pressure about fitting into peoples standards and even losing ourselves in the process. In 6th grade I was completely influenced by the people around me which led to losing myself in a bunch of lies. Lying to those around me and to myself about who I was. I remember specifically taking the rude comments with a smile because it was from people I wanted to like me so badly. It took a long while until I was finally comfortable enough to be my true self. After I began acting like myself I lost many friends and became a loner. I think that in the end it was the best thing to happen because although I got picked on I never lied, now that I am older I pride myself in being my full honest self.